@AGIS It's totally cool that getting questions like that doesn't bother you. But for a lot of people, it does. As you point out, it is often a coded question for asking about people's sex lives. It's generally not okay to ask straight couples (unless you're really close with them) about how/what kind of sex they have, so it should be equally socially frowned upon to ask LGBT folks.
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@AGIS It's totally cool that getting questions like that doesn't bother you. But for a lot of people, it does. As you point out, it is often a coded question for asking about people's sex lives. It's generally not okay to ask straight couples (unless you're really close with them) about how/what kind of sex they have, so it should be equally socially frowned upon to ask LGBT folks.