Some time ago I talked with a German girl about the use of flags in Germany. She told me that the only time it is seen as okay to be waving the German flag is at sport events and official buildings. The rest of the time the fear of feeling national pride is too big. It is in fact so bad that some Germans even feel uncomfortable when they see other countries waving it at hotels and the like.
In Scandinavia we use our flags completely different, but it’s not like in North America where you see flags everywhere as a sign of national pride.
Every time we have a celebration of any kind we raise the flags, because here our flags doesn’t so much symbolise national pride as much as it has become a symbol of happiness, joy and having a good time. And something I haven’t seen in other countries is that we use it when celebrating birthdays. So if you walk by a house here and see 20 small flags in the front yard, it’s not because the people living there are nationalists. It just means someone is celebrating their birthday.
We even put the flags on Christmas trees like so http://www.museum-sonderjylland.dk/BILLEDERNE/web-dansk-juletrae.jpg http://naturvern.imaker.no/data/b/0/98/41/7_2701_0.jpg http://www.airynothing.com/photos/2005_Christmas_Montreal/2005_Christmas_Montreal-Thumbnails/108.jpg
@abdamit Yeah, that shit was crazy. If I was German I'd be disgusted by her. It's your fucking heritage she's pissing all over. It blows my mind how she could do that without being booed out of Germany.
@Corson our "fucking heritage"? excuse me, but our "fucking heritage" is 2 world wars, at least 2 genozides, 2 dictatorships and all that in less then 100 years and merkels reaction just shows, how much we love to punish ourselves for it. my generation didn't do any of this shit and they still tought us guilt in shool, which is BS but still better than blind love for our nation.
@Balistare Not to be arrogant, but I believe we should all be taught as much as we can know about history, that way, we can teach better habits of not letting history repeat. "Learn from your mistakes" for me that means don't attach hydraulics to a gas line in a Cessna. It doesn't work well.(The instructor wasn't a smart man)
When I visited Texas, the Texas flag was everywhere as an antidote to the American Flag. Unless it was Federal Building (like post office) Texas Flag always was seen alongside USA flag. Texans are very proud that they were a republic before they were an American state, and for this reason gives them the right to fly their state flag at same height as national flag. Many Texans consider they are Texans first and Americans second. Many of them disown George Bush Sr. as a "faux texan" as his family were from New England (North eastern USA) and he simply bought himself a "toy ranch" and called himself a Texan rancher.
@Danelaw It could be worse. I was in GA, TN, SC, and NC on the fourth of July weekend, and I literally saw more confederate flags than American flags. At least the Texan flag has fewer negative connotations. Not none, it got its independence after illegal immigrants to Mexico decided they couldn't assimilate (yes, I'm laying it on thick to highlight the incredible irony, and I know it was more complicated than that, although what I'm saying is completely defensible), but compared to the Confederate flag, it's relatively benign. Yes, for those that try to white wash history, the Confederacy was from the first primarily about slavery. Of course, there were "states rights" issues, but they mostly centered around, you guessed it, slavery.
Not that everyone that displays it now is racist, wants to return to slavery, or anything else. No, most are just ignorant and angry rebels without a clue. Still, if on American Independence day, you can see more flags from the entity that seceded from the US than from the US itself, there clearly is a significant population down there that wants to no longer be a part of the US. Personally, I say we should let them go. I don't know why we expended so many men and money to keep states that have been millstones around our necks in so many areas...
You can be national without being nationalistic. Being national is something you choose to be and not about any of those things you are born into. A muslim guy I knew once turned up to a christmas part wearing a danish "klaphat", sang christmas carols, drank non-alcoholic beer and just pretended he was a drunken idiot likes the rest of us. Claimed he was "drunk on happiness". No amount of fistbump would have enough...
Actually, using the flag at birthdays is an exclusively Danish thing. When I, a Swede, first came to Denmark I was super provoked by it and saw it as an other one of Denmarks oblivious ways of being racist. I utterly dislike flags and anything that smells of nationalism. They are connected to war, sports thugs and racists. They include some people at the behest of others. I feel no pride in my flag whatsoever and I'm not ashamed to say it.
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well if you think about it the flag symbolizes your independence as a country. The colors represent what the country is most proud; yellow commonly represent wealth and/or justice in the country and blue normally freedom, vigilance, perseverance, justice, prosperity, peace. I know that I won't be able to change how you look at your flag but for me seeing my flag is more of a thing of comfort than a sign of patriotism, every time I get to see it I feel a little closer to home and school doesn't seem as bad anymore (at least for that month)
@isabla Holy crap...you are truly the embodiment of modern Sweden. Don't worry, soon there will be no divisive national flags. Just one for whole world. And black will be dominant on it.
@isabla you may see it as you like, but i'll keep on dyeing my hair red and white for my friends birthdays. don't ask why, i just do. I did it once and now its my "thing"
On Christmas, I made and cut out flags from Iceland, Denmark, Norway, Finland, and Sweden, then hung them on a rope and put them on a tree. I thought that they looked pretty.
@pn3105 Yepp, totally correct about the first and third stanza of our national anthem.
Problem was that idiot Hitler -eeeerr, no, cut the idiot, that's an insult to all idiots- used the first stanza plus the Horst-Wessel-song so successfully in combination that nobody remembers the original meaning of the first stanza.
The current national anthem was created during a time when there was no real "Germany" per se, rather there were dozens (or even hundreds, depending on the time during the 19th century) of principalities that were split up into the Germanic states, but not a single nation. Dito for the German flag, but in reversed order top-to-bottom.
That's what the "Germany above everything" was supposed to signify - not that they were better than others, nor that they were Bavarians, Swabes, Saxons, Hessians, or one of the many other composite regional principalities. No, they were supposed to see themselves as "Germans" first, and then as whatever state they lived in. Not that they were supposed to be better than anyone else in the world, or above anyone else. No, it was 'first be a German, then worry about the rest of your background later'.
It was a unification call, not a call to rule over the world. Yet that <censored, censored, censored> damn f'ing <censored> Hitler totally royally f'ed it up by slathering in that coat of shhh...- -ameful inferiority-complex he must have had.
Luckily that idiot didn't like the black-red-gold tricolor of the Weimar Republic because he believed it was a slander to Germany. Otherwise we would have had to invent a new flag, too, after WWII.
So, be proud of the great things from Germany's history, and abhor the horrible things that happened.
"Never forget; never repeat." But not as a mantra, only as a reminder. ;-)
@KRyptic Exactly. Good write-up. I would add that there were many other symbols, like the swastika (which had ancient, positive religious meanings before WWII), which were corrupted. We should reclaim them, and strip them of their power to harm, and return the good meanings.
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the sad thing is, that even Merkel denied this flag in disgust, once... video fotage on YouTube... really glorious times to be a german